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"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female'. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife; And the two will become one flesh; so they are no longer two, but one.
Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
~ Mark 10:6-9
 

 


the Sacrament of Marriage

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MUSIC FOR THE
SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE
 


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The Role of Music

Selection of Music

Participation

Parish Musicians

Non-Parish Instrumentalists

Non-Parish Singer

Fees for Musicians

Evening of Wedding Music
 

 
 
 
   
 

 

The Role of Music

Liturgy by its very nature is a festive event and a communal celebration. Liturgy must involve the full, active and conscious participation of all who are present. Therefore, wedding liturgies are celebrated with music and with song.

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Selection of Music

Music for the wedding liturgy is selected from the parish hymnal, the Catholic Book of Worship III or from another commonly accepted hymnal. Popular songs, whether of a vaguely religious nature or not, are not permitted either before or during the celebration. Our director of music will help you in the selection of appropriate sung music and appropriate instrumental music.

Download the Music Suggestion document on the right, for a list of hymns and service music from the Catholic Book of Worship.

The document also includes Music Guidelines with the following information:

  • the role of the cantor
  • choosing Music
  • marriage within a mass
  • marriage outside of mass
  • when does the assembly sing?
  • when does the cantor sing?
  • instrumental music
  • order of service booklet

On January 14, 2008 we added a publication from of the Canadian Bishops: Music at your Wedding (link at right)

Wedding Music Suggestions

in .pdf format - to save,
right click and choose
"save target as"

 

Music at Your Wedding

a flyer published by the
Canadian Bishops

 

 

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  Participation

Full, conscious, and active participation in liturgical song is greatly encouraged. Participation is best achieved when the music used for the wedding liturgy is chosen from our parish hymnal and when the assembly is encouraged to sing. The services of a cantor will assist and support the sung prayer of the assembly. Your wedding liturgy must have some opportunity for communal singing, specifically:

  • a Gathering Hymn of praise after the entrance procession
  • the Responsorial Psalm and the
  • Gospel Acclamation.

In addition, the Eucharistic Acclamations are sung at weddings that are celebrated within a Mass. These are:

  • the Holy Holy
  • Memorial Acclamation and the
  • Great Amen.
  • A hymn is also sung during the distribution of communion.

 

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Parish Musicians

The parish music policy for weddings concerning musicians was updated April 2007. This was in response to abuses and other problems.

 

David Jafelice is the director of music and organist at St. John Chrysostom Parish. Without exception, David provides the music for all wedding liturgies in our church. In addition, you must choose your cantor from St. John’s parish; they are well-trained, experienced, and familiar with parish guidelines. David can put you in touch with our cantors. The organist and the cantor provide the core music for your wedding.
 

Non-Parish Instrumentalists

Once the parish organist and cantor are hired, you may, if you choose, hire additional instrumentalists such as strings or brass. Their repertoire must conform to the church guidelines (pages 2 & 3  of the Music Suggestions document). The parish organist may assist, and will approve the selections. If a rehearsal is needed with the organist, an additional fee is required.
 

Sometimes couples have a friend or family member they wish to sing at their wedding. This is not the norm, nor is it encouraged since the wedding is sacred liturgy and the church does not encourage solo singing at any liturgy. However, once the parish organist and cantor are hired, you may, if you choose, have a singer sing before the liturgy or following the liturgy, during the signing of the civil documents. The song must conform to the church guidelines (pages 2 & 3  of the Music Suggestions document). Our organist will assist in the selection. If a rehearsal is needed with the organist, an additional fee is required.
 

    

 

 

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  Fees for Musicians

Fees for music at your wedding are separate from your donation to the church. They are to be paid at your wedding rehearsal. Please contact David for the current fees.

Please note: no one will be deprived of good liturgical music at their wedding for lack of funds. Those couples in financial difficulty who are planning a simple celebration should talk to their priest.

    

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  Evening of Wedding Music

Periodically, our director of music presents an evening of wedding music. The evening is offered to help you plan your wedding celebration and choose your music wisely. Music for the assembly and instrumental music is presented by David, St. John’s cantors and other parish musicians. The presentation includes a discussion of the wedding liturgy and ways of helping your family and friends participate in the celebration.

Engaged couples are encouraged to attend one of these sessions before deciding their music selections. Please inquire when the next session is scheduled.

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