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Blessed are the dead who
die in the Lord from now on. Let them find rest from their labours, for
their good deeds go with them.
~ Revelation 14:13
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A Community of Caring
"If one member suffers
in the body of Christ which is the Church, all the members suffer with that
member." 1 Corinthians 12:26
We the Christian community of St. John Chrysostom Parish wish to surround our
dying members with prayers and sacraments. As well, we wish to reach out to you,
the mourners, and offer you tangible expressions of consolation, sympathy and
support.
At the funeral of our members, the Church celebrates and proclaims with
confidence the paschal mystery of Jesus - his passage through life into death
and into New Life. We celebrate our hope that we, one with Christ through our
Baptism, may also pass from death to life. We firmly hope that at this time of
grief, it will be a source of great support and strength to you to be surrounded
by people who truly believe in the hope that has been promised to us, by people
whose faith has been tempered and tested by their own experience of loss, and by
people who want to reach out to you as a community of compassion and caring.
When a Loved One Dies
The parish is
contacted and suitable date and time for the funeral will be arranged with the
family and the funeral directors.
One of the priests or members of the pastoral team will meet with the immediate
family to minister to them and to help them prepare the Vigil and/or Funeral
Liturgy.
Ministry of Consolation
and Hope
At St. John Chrysostom parish, we have a team of
caring parishioners who assist community members in their grieving through a
Ministry of Consolation and Hope. Please contact Jean Lashley at the parish
centre for more information on how we can support you. You may also visit the
ministry web page here:

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Whosoever
believes in me
shall not die
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Catholic Funeral Rites
The funeral
rites of the Catholic Church celebrate the passage of one of its members
from this life to the New Life promised by Christ. While Christians
grieve, we do so with faith in the resurrection of Christ and belief in
the promise that we were created by God to be happy with God in
eternity.
Catholic funeral rites have three main components:
X The Vigil
At the vigil (sometimes also called the "wake") the Christian
community keeps prayerful watch with the family in the presence of the
body. This takes place at the funeral home a day or two prior to the
funeral liturgy. The prayer service at the vigil can be both varied and
flexible. The Word of God is proclaimed as source of hope in the face of
darkness and death and prayers of intercession may be offered. The vigil
service is also the appropriate time for remembering the deceased in
words and song. Some people find it comforting to have photographs of
the deceased around the vigil room. Vigils may be led by lay people as
well as ordained ministers.
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The Funeral Liturgy
The funeral liturgy, the principal celebration of the Christian funeral,
is a celebration of the Eucharist. It takes place in the parish church.
In the mass, the community gathers with the family to give praise and
thanks to God for Christ's victory over sin and death and to seek
strength in the proclamation of the Paschal Mystery - the death and
resurrection of Jesus Christ. We give thanks for the life of the
deceased and commend them to God's tender mercy and compassion. For
pastoral reasons, the funeral liturgy may be a Liturgy of the Word. In
such cases, it may be held in the chapel of the funeral home.
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The Rite of Committal
The rite of committal is a simple but important rite of prayer which
takes place at the burial site. It serves to accompany the body of the
deceased to its final resting place and helps the mourners to release
their loved one to God.
Through these ritual stages, we bring hope and consolation to the
living, commend the dead to God, and give thanks for the gift of life,
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Eternal Rest,
grant unto them, O Lord
and let perpetual light
shine upon them.
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Importance of the Body
The care taken to prepare the
body of the deceased for burial reflects our Christian belief in eternal
life and the resurrection of the body. The prayers and gestures of the
funeral rites also affirm the Church's reverence for the body as a
temple of the Holy Spirit. The long-standing practice of burying the
body in a grave or tomb in memory of Jesus, whose own body was placed in
a tomb, continues to be encouraged as a sign of Christian faith.
The Catholic Church strongly recommends that the body be present at the
funeral rites. The presence of the body in the casket is a powerful
symbol for the mourners. It assists people in facing and accepting death
and helps them to begin the grieving process.
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Cremation: Catholics are free to choose cremation unless it is
for a reason contrary to Church teaching. If cremation is desired,
it should take place after the funeral rites. In this way, the body
can be honoured by the family and the community and the bereaved
allowed the proper time to mourn. Death is the last passage of life
and should not be hidden or negated by cremation prior to the
funeral rites. When cremation takes place before the funeral, the
urn should be present at the funeral liturgy where it is afforded
the same reverence as the casket. The ashes are the body of the
deceased in a changed form; we honour them as we do the body.
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Internment: Ideally, internment should occur
immediately after the liturgy. If cremation is to take place after
the funeral then burial will have to be at a later time, but it
should not be delayed too long. The Catholic Church requires
reverent disposition of the cremated remains. They should not be
scattered nor kept indefinitely in the home, but properly interred
as the body would be, or placed in a columbarium.
here is
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For just as in Adam all die,
so too in Christ
shall all be brought to life.
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Symbols of Christian Burial
In the face of death our religious tradition speaks to
us and for us through the symbols of colour, spoken words, gestures and
faith-signs:
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Flowers
Flowers are important to Catholic
worship. They should enhance but not obscure the focal points of the
liturgy: the altar and the ambo (lectern). Flower arrangements do not
need to be expensive and elaborate to add dignity to the celebration.
During the season of Lent, families are encouraged to honour the
liturgical season by foregoing (or at least minimizing) flowers. When
the urn is present a small arrangement or a few roses are appropriate on
the table with the urn.
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The Assembly
We gather together and form an
assembly
of the people of God. We stand together to support
each other in times of mourning and of joy. Those gathered, represent
the Body of Christ on earth, caring and comforting one another and
offering our prayers to our God.
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The Body
Because Catholics hold such deep respect for the body, the
Casket or
Urn has a prominent place in the
funeral rites. The casket is brought to the front of the Church in the
entrance procession accompanied by
Pall Bearers (usually six). In the
case of cremation, the family is encouraged to carry the urn in the
entrance procession and place it on the table with the Pascal Candle
nearby at the beginning of the liturgy. Just as the casket is taken out
during the recessional, the urn may be carried out at the end as well.
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The Vestments
The
vestments that the priest wears
during the liturgy are white - the colour of life and hope. Though we
mourn the death of those who have died, we look beyond their death to
their faith in the God of life and hope.
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The Pall
We cover the casket with a
pall, a large white covering
which recalls the baptismal garments which clothe us in Christ. As the
person enters into a New Life in the resurrection of Jesus, we proclaim
that the greatest thing that can be said about the deceased person is
that she or he is a sister or brother of Christ, a member of the Church.
It is a sign of hope, of resurrection, and of the equality of all
persons before God. The family drapes the pall over the casket when the
priest greets the body at the beginning of the funeral liturgy. The pall
bearers or the funeral directors may perform this task if the family
prefers not to do so.
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The Paschal Candle
Standing before the deceased in the Church during the funeral mass
is the
Paschal candle reminding us that Christ is our light.
It was first lit in the Church in the darkness of early Easter as the
sign to us that Christ, our Risen Lord shatters the darkness of death.
This symbol of the light of Christ stands before the assembly reminding
us that in darkness there is light, in despair there is hope, and in
death there is New Life.
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Scripture
During the liturgy, we hear the treasured words of
scripture
which speak what we believe to be true for us and for the deceased. We
will die. We will mourn. We will hurt. But we will be comforted and all
who are faithful to the Lord will be raised up as the glorious children
of God. Our destiny is eternal life.
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Eucharist
During the funeral liturgy, we share the
Eucharist,
the Body and Blood of Christ, the bread of life and cup of salvation.
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Water
We sprinkle the casket with
Holy water and recall our
Baptism. In this wondrous event, our loved one was declared to be a
child of the Living God. Touched with immortality through that ceremony,
his or her destiny is to live forever - the birthright of a child of
God.
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Incense
At the final commendation, we surround the casket with the sweet
smell of
incense and rising smoke. This is an ancient symbol of
our prayer rising to God and we incense the casket as a sign of our
respect for the body as the temple of the Holy Spirit. In life and in
death, our bodies are holy.
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Hospitality
We continue to show our support for the family at the
Reception.
By sharing food and drink with the family and by expressing our
condolences, we manifest our care and love for them. At St. John
Chrysostom Parish, the Catholic Women's League hosts funeral receptions
in the Parish Centre. The reception takes place after the internment
unless the location of the internment is at a great distance or needs to
take place at a later time.
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The LORD is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down
in green pastures:
he leadeth me beside
the still waters.
He restoreth my soul:
he leadeth me in the
paths of righteousness
for his name's sake.
Yea, though I walk
through the valley of the
shadow of death,
I will fear no evil:
for thou art with me;
thy rod and thy staff
they comfort me.
Thou preparest
a table before me
in the presence of
mine enemies:
thou anointest
my head with oil;
my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy
shall follow me
all the days of my life:
and I will dwell in the
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Acknowledgements: The Funeral information on all six funeral pages is written by Christine
Way-Skinner. St. John Chrysostom Parish expresses gratitude to the
parish of St. Bernadette in Winnipeg, MB whose parish manual for funerals
provided a model for our own. Some of the information contained in this pamphlet
is also based on two articles: "Diocese offers funeral guidelines," published in
Journey the diocesan paper of the Archdiocese of Kingston (October-November,
1999: p 10.) and "Catholic Funerals and Eulogies, the Pall and the Flag - Some
Helpful Information for Preparing a Funeral Liturgy," published by the National
Liturgy Office, CCCB, 90 Parent Avenue, Ottawa, Ontario, K1N 7B1, 1998.
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