When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
~ Henri Nouwen, Out of Solitude
 


 

Ministry of
Consolation and Hope

for those coping with Bereavement

Co-ordinator: Jean Lashley

 

Quick Links to information below . . .

   




Funerals at St. John's

Parish Social Ministry

Catholic Community Services
 

 
 


In response to the call of the Beatitudes, and recognizing our common grief, the Ministry of Consolation and Hope acts on behalf of St. Johns Parish to journey with and offer hope to those who are coping with bereavement.

The members of the Ministry of Consolation and Hope include individuals who have received training and formation in order to journey with people who are experiencing grief.

They can provide support on behalf of the parish as we experience the emotions of grief and express our grief through mourning.

Ministers of consolation:

  • meet with individuals and families who request support

  • organize liturgies and prayer services for those who are experiencing grief

  • send cards to those who have experienced grief

  • where the grief experience is complex, they will assist people in connecting with specialized counselling or other sources of grief support in the community.

We invite you to call the parish office for further information on how you may receive assistance and support.

We also invite interested individuals who would like to become involved in this ministry to contact the parish at 905-898-4137 or fill out and submit the form on the Life of Service web page.
 

 



BEREAVEMENT
RESOURCE LIST

 

PARISH RESOURCES

St. John Chrysostom Ministry of Consolation and Hope
905-898-4127
Visits, cards, memorial masses, referrals


St Elizabeth Seton Ministry of Consolation and Hope
905-853-5009
Cards, visits, monthly drop in, masses of remembrance


Holy Martyrs of Japan Ministry of Consolation
905-775-2065
Funeral home visits, personal support, bereavement groups


Holy Martyrs of Japan Rainbows
905-775-2065
Program for school age children experiencing separation, divorce or death


Holy Martyrs of Japan New Beginnings
905-775-2065
Monthly meetings for separated, divorced, widowed, weekend retreats, etc.



COMMUNITY RESOURCES

Doane House Hospice, 17100 Yonge St.
905-967-0259
Individual counselling, bereavement groups, art therapy for children (free)


Genesis (Roadhouse and Rose) Resource centre
905-895-7750
Library, bereavement counselling, fees for some services


Bereaved Families of Ontario, York Region, 17070 Yonge St.
905-898-6265


Southlake Hospital
905-895-4521
Programs through chaplains office

South Simcoe Catholic Family Life Centre
705-726-2503

Family Services York Region
905-895-2371
 

Counselling

Catholic Community Services of York Region
1-800-265-2075
 

Help Line

310-COPE   (310-2673)  use no area code
 
















 




Tips on Helping Yourself
 

  1. Give yourself permission to grieve. Dont rush the process. Be patient with yourself.
  2. Get plenty of rest. Your body needs it while recovering emotional distress.

  3. Eat proper meals.

  4. Plenty of exercise will help sadness.

  5. Treat yourself occasionally especially to things that will add beauty to your life like flowers, new clothing or something for your home.

  6. Make sure you have someone or a group of people with whom you share your loss.

  7. If possible, dont make major changes or important decisions during the first year.

  8. You will find comfort in continuing to talk about the person who has died.

  9. Draw on the resources of your faith or belief system to sustain you at this time.

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.pdf booklet

1. Healing Rituals

(pages arranged to print
 a double sided booklet)

 

 

THE MOURNERS BILL OF RIGHTS

  • You have the right to experience your own unique grief.

  • You have the right to talk about your grief.

  • You have the right to feel a multitude of emotions.

  • You have the right to be tolerant of your physical and emotional limits.

  • You have the right to experience griefbursts: sudden, powerful surges of grief.

  • You have the right to make use of healing rituals, including the funeral.

  • You have the right to embrace your spirituality.

  • You have the right to search for meaning in life and death.

  • You have the right to treasure your memories.

  • You have the right to move toward your grief and heal.

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.pdf documents

2. Candlelight Service
for a Loved One

3. Candlelight Service
for a Loved One

(pages arranged to print
 a double sided booklet)

 


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