Come, Holy Spirit

Fill the hearts of your faithful and enkindle in them the fire of your love.

Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created and you will renew the face of the earth.
Amen.

 

 


Sacrament of Initiation -

CONFIRMATION


Initiation into the Christian community for Catholics begins when parents present their children for Baptism. In the sacrament of Holy Eucharist, these children are brought more deeply into Christ’s church. Confirmation is the sacrament in which Catholics complete their initiation. After Confirmation a person is completely and fully a member of the church.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Registration Meeting

  2. What do you need to bring

  3. Who should attend?

  4. Can you help?

  5. The Confirmation Preparation Programme

  6. Family Newsletters

  7. The Confirmation Schedule  -  Feb. 1

  8. Resources for Parents and Sponsors

  9. Learn more about Confirmation

  10. Details about the Celebration of Confirmation

  11. Some questions to ponder

  12. Parish Celebrations of Confirmation

 
 
Accommodations: We are committed to providing an accessible and inclusive confirmation preparation. Please speak to Christine regarding any specific accommodations you or your family may need for the preparation and celebration of the sacrament. For those candidates with learning disabilities and who have access to Kurzweil, the Journal is available for download as a Kesi file at the Archdiocesan website: http://www.archtoronto.org/CORE/confirmation_journal.htm.

Look for KESI File near the top of the page.

 

Confirmation PARENT MEETING HANDOUTS
  1. Parent Meeting Handout #2 - January 2010
  2. Thoughts for the Long Haul
  3. Recommended Resources for Parents of Teenagers

 

 St. John's Parish Teen
 helps make a
CONFIRMATION
program that is
accessible to everyone!

Read story from the
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In the Archdiocese of Toronto, candidates for Confirmation are usually twelve years of age or older. Registration is held at the church in the late fall and preparation begins in January. Confirmation takes place during the Easter season as close to Pentecost as possible.

For adults, wishing to be confirmed, preparation is done separately by the parish catechist and is arranged in accordance with the specific needs of the person being confirmed. Confirmation may be celebrated either at the Easter Vigil or at one of the parish celebrations of Confirmation. Please contact Christine if this is your situation.

 

     
 

Registration Meeting - October 2009

Wednesday, October 14

7 PM - 8:30 PM

in the Church

(Make Up Meeting)
Monday, October 26

7:30 PM

in the Church

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What do you need to bring?

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At the registration meeting, we will be asking you to choose a date & time to celebrate the sacrament of Confirmation (so bring your date book!).
2. We will also need a photocopy of your son or daughter's baptismal certificate.

3.

There is no "charge" for the sacrament of Confirmation. Sacraments are free - a gift of Christ and our right as baptised Christians. However, to provide a preparation programme, costs money and the parish is currently struggling to make ends meet.

We would appreciate if you could cover cost of your child's preparation by a donation to the church at the time of registration. Certainly, if this is a burden to you, we would appreciate any amount you are able to give.

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Who should attend?

This meeting is for both Confirmation candidates and their parent(s)/guardian. Candidates will learn about the meaning of the sacrament what the preparation process entails. Parents will learn how they can support and nurture the faith of their sons and daughters during this time as well as be informed of the details of the programme.

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Can you help?

... with Registration

 

The length of time necessary for the actual registration would be greatly accelerated if we had a few extra people to assist with the sign up. If any of you are able to lend a hand, please call (898-4137) or e-mail Christine at the church. Thank you in advance.
 

... with Confirmation Preparation

Also, the Confirmation preparation programme at St. John Chrysostom depends on the generous commitment of parent volunteers who facilitate candidates through a series of preparation meetings. Screening is required and training is provided. This is a rewarding experience for both candidates and facilitators. This will be explained in more detail at the registration meeting but we would like you to consider the possibility of signing up for this opportunity.

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The Confirmation Preparation Programme

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The preparation process we will be using here at St. John's is for all Confirmation candidates regardless of whether you are in public or Catholic school.

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We use the Archdiocesan Confirmation Programme - Anointed for Mission. It consists of five meetings in which you will reflect with a group of about 10-12 other candidates about various aspects of the sacrament of confirmation and Christian living.

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As well, candidates complete a journal and participate in a liturgical celebration of the Rite of Calling to Confirmation, a retreat and a celebration of the sacrament of Reconciliation. The groups of candidates are facilitated by volunteers from the parish and are, for the most part, parents of candidates.

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The role of the parents or guardians in the confirmation preparation process is essential. After each session, the candidates will be bringing home a "Newsletter." This newsletter will detail the specific way the family is to cooperate together in the preparation process as well as provide any communication from the parish.

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  Family Newsletters

     
 
          updated Feb. 12, 2010
  1. Session 1 Newsletter - Ask and You Shall Receive: The Gifts of the Spirit

  2. Session 2 Newsletter - Seeking God in Prayer

  3. Session 3 Newsletter - The Call of Jesus to Mission

  4. Session 4 Newsletter - Signs of the Spirit: The Confirmation Liturgy

  5. Session 5 Newsletter - Servants of God - Gifted for Mission

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The Confirmation Schedule

 

Class Schedule and Important Dates

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Confirmation Schedule - February 2010

Feb. 1, 2010

This PDF schedule was revised again on January 27, 2010
Please make sure you use this new schedule

 

 
 

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Resources for Parents and Sponsors

Preparing Your Child for Confirmation at St. John's - A Resource for Parents and Guardians

Preparing Your Child for Confirmation

Confirmation Resources for Parents Parent Resources

Being a Spiritual Guide - A Handout for Sponsors Sponsor Handout

Confirmation Resources for Sponsors

Sponsor Resources

Family Newsletters   see above

Additional Resources: links to . . .

   

Countdown to Confirmation

Have Faith


Learn More about the Sacrament of Confirmation
by reading the following articles:

  1. Catechism Quiz: What Is the Sacrament of Confirmation? by Friar Jim Van Vurst, O.F. M.

  2. Confirmation: Sacrament of the Spirit by Rev. Thomas Richstatter, O.F.M., S.T.D.

  3. Sacraments of Initiation: Sacraments of Invitation by Thomas Richstatter, O.F.M.

  4. Confirmation: A Deepening of Our Christian Identity by Carol Luebering

  5. What difference does Confirmation make? by Joseph Martos

  6. Confirmation: Seven Symbols in One Sacrament by Thomas Richstatter, O.F.M.

  7. Confirmation: Sacrament of the Spirit by Thomas Richstatter, O.F.M.

  8. What are the gifts of the Holy Spirit received at Confirmation?

  9. Who can be a Confirmation sponsor and what is expected?

  10. Why don't we speak in tongues after being confirmed?

    all available at http://www.americancatholic.org/Features/Sacraments/Confirmation.asp

  11. Confirmation is About Initiation - A Short Video

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Details about the Celebration of Confirmation

Photography & Videos: Liturgy, or worship, is a sacred event in which all of us communicate with God. Everyone who is present at any liturgical celebration should be participating fully. Obviously, one cannot participate fully while concentrating on cameras and video recorders. Therefore, photography is restricted to after the Confirmation celebration.

Clothing: It seems to be a strong consensus in this parish that both candidates and their families prefer to have candidates wear red gowns for the confirmation liturgy. While wearing gowns is not required by the church, the practice can enhance the liturgy by evoking images of fire (a symbol of the Holy Spirit), festivity, etc. We will be measuring each candidate later in the year so that each person's gown will fit properly.
Liturgy: As you register you will sign-up for the mass at which you wish to celebrate your Confirmation. If you would like to be involved in the celebration (e.g. reading, carrying a banner, etc.) there will be a chance for you to sign up during the course of the preparation.
Covering Our Costs: There is no "charge" for the sacrament or the program. However, our programmes cost money and the parish is currently experiencing some financial difficulty. We would like if you could support the cost of the programme through a donation. Please give whatever you are able. Income tax receipts will be issued for all donations.
Sponsors: Sponsors should be practising, confirmed Catholics and be at least 16 years old. The sponsor should take an active role in supporting the faith journey of the candidate. The candidates' godparents are a particularly good choice for confirmation sponsor since they can make the symbolic link between the initiation begun at baptism and that continued at confirmation. Parents do not sponsor their own children as they already have a significant role in their son or daughter's spiritual life. It does not matter what gender the sponsor is.

See above for "Sponsor Handout" and "Resources for Sponsors"

You can find a Reflection Sheet for helping you to choose a Confirmation sponsor at: Espiritu Santo

Community Service: We would like all confirmation candidates to do some form of community service beginning during the preparation time and enduring throughout their lives. We emphasize Christian service because "good works" are absolutely central to the Christian life of faith. As Christians we must instill in ourselves a deep sense of care and concern for the world around us. We would encourage parents to provide creative suggestions to the candidates and to help them reflect on the meaning of their experiences of service.

If you would like to be involved in service to St. John's Parish Community, there is a volunteer e-mail list for which you can sign up. Please contact Christine.

Confirmation Names: Candidates are not required to choose a new name for Confirmation. It is perfectly acceptable for the candidate to use his or her baptismal name. However, if you would like to choose a patron saint on the occasion of your confirmation, this is certainly acceptable. Having models of holiness is very important in a culture in which movie, music and sports heroes dominate our lives. The Christian saints provide such models. (See Christine’s Web Picks for good web sites on the saints)

The choosing of a confirmation name mirrors the practice of naming in baptism which signifies a new identity in Christ. Candidates should not choose a name because it "sounds nice," but, rather, because the person bearing that name in some way signifies a particular expression of Christian living that appeals to the candidate.

Please note: The name of your saint is not recorded in our registry.

Attendance: Attendance is mandatory! We expect that all candidates will attend every session, including the retreat. We understand that sometimes there are serious reasons which prevent people from attending, Should such a situation occur, contact the catechist and she will contact your group facilitator and arrangements will be made for you to attend another group's meeting.
Certificates: Certificates will be distributed in the small groups the week after confirmation.

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Some Questions to Ponder

Is Confirmation and End or a Beginning?

At the end of Grade 8 you will (or did) graduate. Think for a moment about what this means. You have spent many years attaining enough knowledge to merit a certificate that says you have earned an elementary education. You have completed something. You will never go back to being an elementary school student again. Graduation signals the end of something. It is the last step of a process.

Confirmation, on the other hand, is something quite different. It is a sacrament of Initiation and initiation signals the beginning of something. It is a first step, not the last. As a sacrament of initiation, confirmation is about the beginnings of a new and deeper kind of Christian commitment. It is the beginning of your life as an adult member of the church.

Do you have to know everything about being Catholic to be confirmed? Not at all. Learning about the meaning of your faith is a lifetime task. You need only know enough to understand what kind of commitment you are making. The preparation process here at St. John's is about helping you to do that as well as to help you prepare spiritually for that commitment.
 

What does this Commitment Mean?
 

When you were baptised, your parents made a decision to raise you as a Catholic Christian person. In confirmation, both you and the Catholic community confirms this decision. This is your chance to decide to renew and recommit yourself to the promises that were made on your behalf at your baptism.

So what are you committing yourself to in the sacrament of Confirmation? Well, first of all to living a Christian way of life. This means trying to be loving and kind in all that you do. It means caring about justice and truthfulness. And most of all it means having a relationship with Jesus. Central to this relationship is living a life of prayerfulness - both personal (private prayer) and communal (Sunday Mass). For Christians this is how we come to know and express our faith in God. It is also how we find the strength to sustain our commitment to live just and loving lives.

If you do not feel able to make such a commitment, we encourage you not to be confirmed at this time. This is not because we want to be judgmental or "exclusive". Rather, confirmation is about celebrating one's "full, conscious and active participation" in the Christian community. It doesn't make sense to celebrate the ritual if we do not intend to live out the commitment. We would certainly never dream of signing up for a sports team and buying all of the equipment just so that we would have the experience of signing up with no intention of participating in the games. Nor should we celebrate a ritual of Christian commitment if we don't intend to participate fully. Whenever in our lives that we feel the call to full inclusion in the church, whether we are thirteen or ninety, this is when we should be confirmed.
 

How Do I Know I Am Ready to be Confirmed?
 

We can ask God for the gift of the Holy Spirit at any time. (Indeed, the Orthodox and Eastern Rite Christians confirm babies at Baptism.) But it makes most sense, if we are being confirmed later in our Christian life, to celebrate Confirmation when we know we are going to live out our Christian commitment as fully as possible.

The following questions will help you to discern if you are ready to celebrate confirmation.

  • Why do I want to be confirmed?

  • If everyone else in my peer group/class/friends, etc. was choosing not to be confirmed, would I still chose to be confirmed myself?

  • Am I willing to be a person of love and compassion, serving others in the way that Jesus did?

  • Am I willing to make an effort to deepen my spiritual life through private prayer and public worship?

  • Is participation in the Christian community, particularly through my parish, important to me?

Do I have to go to Church?
 

This seems to be a common question for Confirmation candidates. The short answer is "yes." When you decide to be confirmed, you are making a commitment to belong the Eucharistic community in the fullest possible way. This is what it means to "complete one's initiation" which is what you are doing in the sacrament of Confirmation. One doesn't sign up for a team, buy the equipment and then not attend any games! Nor should one sign up to be confirmed, dress up and go through the ritual and then not "play the game" of Christianity.

Another way to look at the question is this. Each week in Sunday Eucharist we are offered the gift of Jesus and given the Grace we need to live our Christian life during the week. It doesn’t make any sense to ask God to send us the gifts of the Holy Spirit if we do not even choose to accept that gift of Christ’s presence given to us weekly in Eucharist.
 

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Parish Celebrations of Confirmation - May 2010

Saturday, May 22

(Victoria Day Weekend)

 5:00 PM

Sunday, May 23

(Victoria Day Weekend)

 8:30 AM

10:00 AM

12:00 PM

Saturday, May 29  5:00 PM

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